If you can sense that you're destined for more and curious about how alcohol might be holding you back, then Present and Sober is the podcast for you! Join your hosts Sam and Ellie for a weekly dose of practical mind and body practices that will elevate your daily life and show you the wonder and potential of living life alcohol-free. Let's make life bigger, together!
Fitness, Family, and Fearless Travel | With Kate Nichols
May 6, 2025 • 43 MIN
Join Sam and Ellie as they chat with Kate Nichols about rediscovering adventure through travel, transforming fitness, and mending family bonds in sobriety.
When Sobriety Changes Everything! Relationships, divorce, and new beginnings | With Allison Barber
April 22, 2025 • 42 MIN
Join Sam and Ellie as they chat with Allison Barber about relationships, divorce, and rediscovering your true self in sobriety.
Navigating the World of Sober Dating | With RJ Zimmerman
April 8, 2025 • 55 MIN
Join Sam, Ellie, and special guest RJ as they navigate the world of sober dating. Discover insightful tips, hilarious anecdotes, and the importance of finding genuine connections without alcohol.
From Cognitive Dissonance to Clarity | Joel's P&S Story
February 25, 2025 • 52 MIN
This week on Present & Sober, Joel Starks shares his journey to sobriety. We discuss 'taming' the inner voice that can get in the way, finding empowerment in the changes we experience and the joy of living with more and more clarity.
Exploring New Hobbies & Old Passions Sober
January 28, 2025 • 31 MIN
Today we're diving into the excitement and importance of trying out new things, and rediscovering old passions in our Present & Sober life! Join us as we share personal stories and tips on how to reignite your sense of adventure and self-discovery!
How to be Unf*ckwithable!
January 14, 2025 • 41 MIN
Join Sam and Ellie as they explore becoming "unf*ckwithable," facing life's challenges head-on, and unveiling true inner strength. This isn't about grinning and bearing it, this is all about knowing what you have going for you - always!
A Present and Sober New Year!
December 31, 2024 • 41 MIN
Join Sam and Ellie for a dynamic discussion on embracing the present, debunking New Year's resolutions, and finding joy in everyday moments.
Our 7 Top Tips for a Present & Sober Christmas
December 17, 2024 • 45 MIN
Join Ellie and Sam as they share top tips for a joyful, sober Christmas, discussing self-care, flexible planning, and the magic of sacred silliness. Make this Christmas your best one yet! ❤️
Should I Stop Drinking for Christmas?
December 3, 2024 • 40 MIN
Join Sam and Ellie as they explore the decision to drink or go sober this Christmas. They cover self-reverence, societal pressures, and the joys of a clear, authentic festive season. 🌟🎄🌟
My Friends Don't Get 'Sober Me'!
November 19, 2024 • 43 MIN
Join Sam and Ellie as they tackle friendship dynamics post-sobriety, exploring meaningful connections versus superficial bonds. Discover how authentic relationships can thrive through change. Ready for some real talk?
Measuring Success on the Road to Sobriety
October 22, 2024 • 37 MIN
Join Sam and Ellie as they reimagine 'success', exploring its subjective nature and how personal insights can redefine what being sober means to you!
Shame, Self Judgement and Data Points
September 24, 2024 • 41 MIN
Have you ever felt the weight of self-criticism and shame holding you back? In today's episode of Present & Sober, we dive into the intricate dance of these emotions, finding acceptance, and cultivating lasting change!
Ellie's Back!!! Let's Talk Processing Emotions
September 10, 2024 • 43 MIN
Join Sam and Ellie as they explore processing emotions, deep acceptance, and self-comfort on the Present and Sober life adventure. Discover tools for nurturing yourself through tough times and learn why doing less can lead to more freedom.
Overcoming Childhood Trauma with Justin Long
July 2, 2024 • 48 MIN
Join Sam and Ellie as they explore Justin Long's journey through trauma, addiction, and transformation. Discover the power of forgiveness, therapy, and self-love in this inspiring, heartfelt episode ❤️ - grab those tissues!
Susan Anderson: Taming the Outer Child
June 25, 2024 • 52 MIN
Join Sam, Ellie, and special guest Susan Anderson as they explore inner and outer child dynamics, the path to authentic self-love, and overcoming abandonment issues.
Dry but High with Matt Pink
June 18, 2024 • 40 MIN
This week on Present and Sober, we dive into Matt Pink's inspiring journey from addiction to becoming a sober coach, bestselling author, and co-founder of the 'Dry - app'. Discover how personal transformation, a spiritual awakening, and community support can pave the way to an empowered alcohol-free life!
Maisie Hill: Be POWERFUL in sobriety
May 21, 2024 • 49 MIN
Join Sam, Ellie, and special guest Maisie Hill as they explore boundaries, stress, and sobriety's role in personal growth and self-discovery. Let's Dive deep into resilience and authentic living and take your power back from alcohol!
Toni Will: The 6 Pillars of Sobriety
April 30, 2024 • 53 MIN
In this week's episode of Present & Sober, Toni Will, GM of the Kalamazoo Wings Pro hockey Team, delves into her powerful sobriety journey, the 6 pillars of sobriety, and overcoming adversity in our professional lives. We explore leadership, courage, and finding joy in an alcohol-free life. Don't miss it!
The Paradox of Sobriety: It’s Not Just About Quitting Drinking
April 23, 2024 • 25 MIN
This week, Ellie and Sam explore a key truth in sobriety: it's not about the number of alcohol-free days we get, but the intention behind them. We answer Bev's question from our membership group, discussing why behaviour isn't the best metric for success and how focusing on our inner desires leads to true freedom. Join us as we explore the deeper journey to rediscover joy and peace in sobriety.
Andy Ramage: Unleashing Your Alcohol Free Potential
April 9, 2024 • 54 MIN
Embarking on an alcohol-free journey can be transformative, not just for the body, but for the mind and soul too - and that's the heart of today's conversation on Present & Sober. Join us as we dive deep with Andy Ramage, a leading voice in the sobriety movement and wellness coaching, to uncover the life-changing benefits and expanding horizons of living present and sober!
Ruby Williams: Alcohol, Weight-Loss, and Living Your Best Life
April 2, 2024 • 50 MIN
In this powerful episode of Present & Sober, we dive deep with Coach Ruby, exploring overcoming addiction, losing weight, and finding joy in sobriety - no matter our past! Join us as we unpack the struggles, victories, and invaluable lessons on this road to living Present and Sober!
Jeff Bowersox: Embracing Playfulness in Sobriety
March 26, 2024 • 88 MIN
This week the one and only Jeff Bowersox returns to candidly share the profound changes sobriety has brought to his relationship with his partner, Tammy, and how they're embracing a playfulness-filled life. We dive into the beauty of recovery, the importance of connection, and the support systems that make it all possible.
Spring into Sobriety: The Ultimate Life Cleanse 🌸
March 12, 2024 • 26 MIN
As we spring into a new season, we're diving into the joy of embracing life without alcohol on this episode of Present & Sober. Join hosts Sam and Ellie as they share inspirational insights, practical tips, and humorous reflections on living fully present and sober in Spring!
How to Deal with Disappointment in Sobriety
March 5, 2024 • 35 MIN
Disappointment touches us all, from the sting of unmet expectations to the pangs of life's unpredictability. Join us as we unpack the complexities of disappointment, and discuss how it can be a gateway to personal growth and a more mindful, alcohol-free lifestyle.
Working with the Shadow
February 27, 2024 • 37 MIN
In today's episode, we're diving deep into the concept of working with our shadow selves, a crucial step for growth and understanding on the path to a fulfilled, alcohol-free life. Join us as we unveil the transformative power of embracing our inner complexities and discuss how to navigate life's roller coaster with wisdom and compassion.
Decoupling Food and Alcohol
February 20, 2024 • 32 MIN
Join Sam and Ellie as they delve into the transformative journey of rediscovering the joy of food without alcohol, embracing balance in diet, and the crucial role of meal preparation in fostering a fulfilling sober lifestyle. Whether you're a busy professional or someone seeking to add fervor back into your culinary experiences, this podcast is your gateway to healthy, alcohol-free living through the art of cooking.
How to Travel Present & Sober
February 13, 2024 • 34 MIN
Embark on an alcohol-free adventure this week as we discuss how to travel present and sober in today's episode. From coping with long flights to rediscovering travel without alcohol, join us as we share tips and personal experiences to help you elevate your sober travel game.
Navigating Work Events Present & Sober
February 6, 2024 • 49 MIN
Get ready to navigate the world of work events alcohol-free! From setting intentions and self-assurance to managing emotions and finding ease, we've got you covered with practical tips and real-life stories. So, grab a cuppa and join in the fun!
Exploring Your Word of the Year!
January 30, 2024 • 39 MIN
This episode we're LIVE, and exploring your word of the year! Perhaps you caught this in the FB group? Or perhaps you're tuning in for the first time. Either way, we've got an ace way to get your intention flowing for the rest of 2024.
When Your Partner Still Drinks...
January 23, 2024 • 38 MIN
In this week's episode, we're diving into ways to navigate relationship dynamics when only one partner chooses a sober lifestyle. Join us as we discuss personal growth, setting boundaries, and finding gratitude in the journey! This is also the first episode requested as a part of our new membership 🥳.
Charlotte Verdeyen: Finding the Substance in Style
January 16, 2024 • 53 MIN
Join Ellie and Charlotte as they explore how to find true substance and meaning in how we express ourselves! We've never had an episode like this before and it will take you places you didn't expect. Come and clothe yourself in some good feelings.
Experimenting Your Way to Success in 2024
December 26, 2023 • 38 MIN
Join Sam and Ellie as they explore the power of an experimental mindset and the transformative potential of experiments! If you're looking to make some changes in 2024, then this is the podcast for you!
Keepin' it real at Christmas!
December 19, 2023 • 37 MIN
Join Sam and Ellie as they delve into reframing Christmas, addressing the emotions often stirred up during the holiday season and finding hope in difficult times. Let's keep it real this Christmas and bring 2024 in with a BANG ❤️.
Sacred Silliness at Christmas
December 12, 2023 • 37 MIN
What a topic we have for you this week folks! Maybe you have that Christmas party on the horizon or that family gathering? And maybe you're wondering how you can bring some joy to the occasion and a damn good time? Then we've got just the episode for you...
Kim Raysmith: The Power of Self Care
December 5, 2023 • 51 MIN
This week, Kim Raysmith rejoins the podcast ✨✨. Kim shares her struggles with alcohol, the breakthrough moments that led to her sobriety, and her path to finding self-care practices like yoga and mindfulness. Both Ellie and Kim emphasize the importance of recognizing and nurturing the different voices within us and making conscious choices that align with our true selves. They also discuss the magic and synchronicities that arise when actively investing in self-improvement. Join us as we explore the powerful impact of self-care and the journey to personal transformation in this enlightening episode!
Have you come to your alcohol-free senses?
November 28, 2023 • 36 MIN
It's not talked about a lot, but your senses coming fully back online is one the most amazing parts of becoming alcohol-free! Come and join us as we explore this magical part of the journey.
Martha Wright: Living a Joyful Alcohol Free Life!
November 14, 2023 • 55 MIN
Today the wonderful Martha Wright joins us on the show to share her insights around living a joyful alcohol free life! Martha's story from winemaker to joy maker is beyond inspirational and goes to how we can do ANYTHING alcohol-free.
John Lewis: Breaking the Cycle of Debt and Alcohol Abuse
November 7, 2023 • 51 MIN
This week the wonderful John Lewis joins us to talk about the gift of becoming debt-free after stopping drinking. This is a little talked about topic that has a HUGE impact on those who are affected. There is so much we can do and help we can get on the journey so if you or anyone you know is affected by this topic, please do share!
James Swanwick: Unmasking the Truth about Alcohol
October 31, 2023 • 44 MIN
James Swanwick is an Australian-American investor, entrepreneur, speaker and former SportsCenter anchor on ESPN. He is the creator of the Alcohol Free Lifestyle, which helps people change their relationship to alcohol; the host of the podcast, “Alcohol Free Lifestyle”, creator of “Project 90”, which helps high achievers get lifetime power over alcohol, and creator of blue-light blocking glasses Swannies by Swanwick Sleep, which improve your sleep.
Dalia Weinreb: How to Heal Your Gut
October 17, 2023 • 56 MIN
Dalia is a registered dietician with years of experience and she's here to help you understand more about the power of healing the gut on the alcohol-free journey! It was such a pleasure to speak to a medical professional with plenty of clinical experience who truly thinks in a holistic way. This was an AMAZING conversation and one not to miss! From the clinical to the spiritual, it has it all.
Who are you stopping drinking for?
October 10, 2023 • 26 MIN
Whether it's a journey to alcohol freedom or any other change in our lives, it's good to know our deep reason for why we want to go on the journey. But does it matter if we're not doing it for ourselves first and foremost? Yes! It does, and in today's episode we're exploring why that is...
Reflections on 8 Years Alcohol Free!
September 19, 2023 • 32 MIN
October 1st '23 will mark 8 years alcohol-free for that man Mr Sam, and it's 4 years this coming Christmas for that Ellie Crowe! Join Sam and Ellie as they riff on the things they've seen and now know to be true about the alcohol-free journey at this point in their journey ❤️.
The Change of the Seasons
September 12, 2023 • 35 MIN
It's that time of year again! The nights are drawing in, Christmas is around the corner, and there are potentially a lot of alcohol-free firsts on the horizon. But fear not! We've got you...
Inviting Self Care Into Your Life
May 16, 2023 • 47 MIN
Self care! It's something that most of us know is important but many of us struggle to find time for. A lot of this seems to be down to how we think about and relate to self-care and of course, the beliefs we have about it. Ultimately, if it's the last thing on the list, we'll struggle to build it into our lives. Come and learn how to invite more self care into your life.
Surf's up! 'Urge Surfing' as a Life Skill
May 2, 2023 • 40 MIN
Maybe you've heard of 'surfing the urge'? Maybe you haven't? Either way, when it comes to habit change or processing our emotions, this is something incredibly powerful to explore, befriend and use in your life. It's the same process for alcohol cravings as it is for heavy feelings and emotions so there is something for everyone in today's episode!
EP 100!!! Jeff Salzenstein: Live Life Like a Pro!
April 25, 2023 • 54 MIN
We have a super special guest to mark 100 episodes of the P&S team, Jeff Salzenstein. In 2004 Jeff became the oldest American to break into the top 100 in men's tennis, something he did at the age of 30 (no mean feat). It's fair to say he has a few things to share about living life like a pro (and you guessed it, it doesn't include imbibing alcohol). However, most importantly, Jeff is here to share his brother's deeply moving and multi-layered story of addiction.
How to stop Sabotaging Yourself!
April 18, 2023 • 57 MIN
This week we're talking self-sabotage! You know that thing you always do even though you know you shouldn't? That thing that you just can't seem to shake? Well, hopefully, today's episode will loosen its hold on you just a little. It's time to learn how to live from the 'creation orientation', follow your own trail of breadcrumbs, and listen to your heart's desire when making decisions.
Exploring Self: Self Awareness (Part 1)
March 21, 2023 • 32 MIN
Join us for the first of our 'exploring self' series. First up, self awareness. Awareness had to be the be starting point for this exploration, as awareness is where everything starts! You're also going to find out why is obsessed with a big book about space, and why sam shouldn't be in charge of naming shows! Let's go!
Jamie Smart: The Principles Behind Clarity
February 28, 2023 • 50 MIN
It's a truly special one this week team as Jamie Smart joins us to talk about living with Clarity! Jamie is one of Sam's mentors and if you've been touched by any of the conversations on this podcast, Jamie played a part in that! No matter where you are, how hopeless or different you feel, you're all connected to what we talk about on today's podcast and it turns out that's a very good thing!
Emma Gilmour: When the Sh*t Hits the Fan...
February 24, 2023 • 36 MIN
Sometimes it's not until the sh*t hits the fan that we realise how much our AF life is supporting us or how far we really have come! Join us for a raw, vulnerable and honest podcast where Emma returns to not only share her wisdom but an awesome offer for you all!
What to do When Someone is an As*hole!
February 21, 2023 • 30 MIN
Yep, we're going there! What to do when there is someone in your life who is being an as*hole. Perhaps they're not listening or trying to force their opinions on you. It doesn't matter the circumstance, this conversation will open up an opportunity for you to see things differently and step into your power!
Does length really matter?!?
February 14, 2023 • 33 MIN
Join Sam and Ellie for a discussion around one the most powerful tools we can add to our alcohol free arsenal - lengthening! If you're wondering what on earth 'lengthening' is, you better get your ears around this one. But it's fair to say that this is a powerful thing to explore if there is ANY habit or addiction in your life that you would like to release!
Prof. James Brown: What the Adult ADHD!?!
February 7, 2023 • 59 MIN
Join us for one of our most requested topics ever! A discussion all around ADHD & its impact on addiction, with a leading expert in the field. Sam and James explore what ADHD is, what it isn't, and sort the facts from fiction so you don't have to. This has been a long time coming and will help you sort through a lot of the misinformation and bias which has been spread by the sensationalist media over the past few decades.
2 More Awesome Reasons to be Alcohol Free!
January 31, 2023 • 38 MIN
We've only gone and done it again! Yep, we're exploring two more awesome reasons to be alcohol free. There isn't much else to say other than, get your ears on this!!!
Change your Beliefs, Change your World
January 24, 2023 • 36 MIN
This week we're on a journey into the deepest layers of your beliefs, and discover that things might not be quite as they seem from the surface! If there is something you would dearly love to change in your life, from stopping drinking to feeling more joy, then there is something here for you 🙏!
I Get it 'Intellectually'! Why Won't it Change?
January 17, 2023 • 35 MIN
Knowing how to change something 'intellectually' just isn't the same as it truly landing and shifting for good. So often this feeling of 'I should know better by now' brings up feelings of guilt and shame and keeps us locked in our patterns of drinking, eating, or whatever it may be! Come hop on our magic carpet as we explore some parts of your internal landscape you may not have seen before!
Rethinking New Year's Resolutions (so they actually work)
January 10, 2023 • 40 MIN
How long do New Year's resolutions actually last for most people? Do you even set them? It's interesting that something that is so common can so often left up long forgotten even before the end of January! But it doesn't have to be this way. It's a bold claim but in rethinking what we mean and choosing again, we can open up a world of possibility for the world ahead. Come see!
Tabbin Almond: From Wine to Water
December 27, 2022 • 62 MIN
This week the inspirational Tabbin Almond Joins us for the show. Tabbin's story is truly inspirational and it goes to show that whatever life throws at us, we're never down and out! From health to relationships Tabbin has come through some of life's great challenges and found true alcohol freedom. This is one to bookmark.
Not Your Normal Christmas Show 🎄🎄🎄!
December 20, 2022 • 41 MIN
It's Christmas!!! So wherever you are, and whatever you're up to, get your Santa hat on and come and join the party 🎄🎄🎄! If you're looking to add the icing to the Christmas cake, with a little festive cheer, we got you! Ellie also goes a bit 'crackers' (see what I did there?). This certainly ain't your normal Christmas show!
Turning Conflict into Curiosity
December 13, 2022 • 43 MIN
Conflict! It's something many of us avoid (or desperately try to), especially at the the times of year when we're celebrating and hanging out with our family. But despite the best of intentions, many of us innocently repeat past conflict patterns in our relationships. Perhaps it's 'that conversation' that always happens or the way we always get triggered by a certain someone (or the way they cook the turkey!). Well, today we take conflict head-on, and you might be surprised by what we find. Curious? You should be!
The Gift of an Alcohol Free December
December 6, 2022 • 45 MIN
It's getting cold, Christmas is around the corner, and many of us might be having some 'thoughts' and feelings about this time of year (from all parts of the emotional spectrum). If you'd like to turn what can be a daunting time into a time of magic and joy, this podcast is for you.
The Tale of the Tennis Racket
November 29, 2022 • 33 MIN
We're releasing something different into the world this week! Think of it like an unreleased album that's sadly been gathering dust, but it's suddenly time for in to go out into the world. It's a tale of a tennis racket which involved a trip to the hospital, connection and a lot of learning.
Luke Raymond: Why Drinking No Longer Makes Any Sense
November 22, 2022 • 55 MIN
This week Luke (One of Sam's best pals) joins us on the show to share his journey to becoming alcohol-free. Sam and Luke go way back (they met in Poland 10 years ago) so not only is this interesting because of Luke's inspirational story, but also for anyone who wants insider knowledge on what it is really like to hang out with Sam every day!
Processing 'Negative' Emotions
November 15, 2022 • 46 MIN
This week we take on the topic of 'negative' emotions and how to process them. At the heart of the discussion is one powerful question. Are 'negative' emotions really negative? Could a new perspective not only shine a light on what to do when they inevitably come along but also allow us to feel peace while experiencing emotional pain? It's a biggy!
Amanda Thomson: How to be Noughty AF
November 8, 2022 • 41 MIN
This week we're joined by the amazing Amanda Thomson, CEO, and founder of 'Noughty' AF drinks (yes there is such a thing as alcohol-free wine that tastes good!) for a really interesting and important discussion. This isn't just about replicating taste and offering a tool for AF socializing, but also the opportunity to change the alcohol industry and society at large to the benefit of all!
Lynnie McGivern: Walking the Path to Alcohol Freedom
November 1, 2022 • 50 MIN
This week our good pal, Lynnie McGivern joins us to talk about her journey through This Naked Mind's 'The Path' and how she found true freedom from alcohol. For anyone who has been considering hopping into a program for extra support on the AF journey, this is one awesome podcast to tune into! Lynnie is a true inspiration and she is destined for big things!
The Dangers (and Opportunity) of Sober October!
October 25, 2022 • 58 MIN
As Sober October and alcohol-free 'challenges' grow in popularity, there are some really obvious benefits to taking some time away from booze. From better sleep to less stress there are so many benefits from a break but are there dangers too? Can we use these periods of time as a way of proving 'all is well' for another year, when there could be some far better on the menu? Come and join us to find out how to get the most from a month away from alcohol!
How to Set Boundaries
October 18, 2022 • 41 MIN
It's a big topic this week - boundaries, and how to set them. You know the scene, someone asks you to do something, and you know with your whole body the right answer for you is a strong 'no', and yet, a different word comes out of your mouth. So if you know it's time to make a stand for yourself but you don't quite know how to, tune in!
Kate Baily: Love Your Sober Year
October 11, 2022 • 43 MIN
Winter is closer and the leaves are changing colour, yep, it's the change of seasons. Sobriety has it's seasons too, and understanding how to navigate them can be the difference between feeling like we're surviving or thriving alcohol free (even when the nights are drawing in!). Come and join us as we have a heartwarming chat with Kate Bailey about her amazing new book and learn to embrace the rhythm of change that is all around us.
Karla Adkins: Liver Damage Couldn't Happen to me, Right? (Part 2)
September 13, 2022 • 58 MIN
This week the amazing Karla Adkins joins us once again to talk about her journey through addiction and cirrhosis to joy and healing shame. In part 2 we take a deep dive into Karla's personal healing journey and the wider implications for society. Let's break the stigma!
Karla is on a mission to normalize not drinking and to help people make the shift from feeling shame to being courageous. After a life-altering event, her perspective on life changed, and through that experience, she created a safe, judgement-free zone where people can talk about their alcohol fears without being labeled.
Margy Jackson: I am Enough
July 26, 2022 • 47 MIN
After struggling with anxiety and depression during her formative years, Margy turned to alcohol to self-medicate and quieten her inner turmoil. Through two failed marriages and fractured relationships, a teaching career spanning thirty-two years, and two children, Margy finally kicked the wine witch to the curb and found her own voice. Such as great chat!
Wendy McCallum: Booze, Burnout & Being With Yourself
July 12, 2022 • 63 MIN
Burnout! It's a term we hear A LOT these days, but how many of us know what the word is actually pointing to and how many of us may have experienced it without even knowing what was going on? If you've ever used alcohol to manage stress and anxiety then this podcast is a must! Not only will you learn the truth about burnout and learn the signs that you might be experiencing it, but you'll get an awesome insight into how to truly be with yourself too!
Susan Joy: Lessons Learned from Prison
June 14, 2022 • 65 MIN
The thought of going to prison is enough to strike the fear of God into most of us. By its very nature, prison is designed to be out of our comfort zone, a deterrent, a punishment. But does it do what it is 'designed' to do? What are the true realities of prison sub-culture and what would you do if you were there? This week we have the inspirational Susan Joy back with us as she reflects on the lessons and harsh realities of the prison system. We cover the challenges and the gifts of one of life's most challenging experiences.
How to Trust Your Inner Guide
May 24, 2022 • 54 MIN
It's all about getting out your comfort zone, right? Right. But with so many options, so many things 'to do' how we know we're doing the right this FOR US and not for those around us? It's a biggy and this week's podcast tackles this question head on. We all have an inner GPS, the thing is, how do we listen to the guidance when we've innocently drowned out the 'voice' of our inner guide for so long? On the alcohol-free/sober journey, this is a HUGE topic so don't miss it!
Mary Davenport: Finding the Motivation for True Change
May 17, 2022 • 56 MIN
Today is the 50th episode of the 'Present and Sober' podcast!!! How on earth did that happen so fast? Yet at the same time, we've learnt so so much and we hope you all have too. This week's guest, Mary Davenport, is with us not just to share her story but to talk about motivation, the comfort zone, and the joy of living an alcohol-free life. We wanted to deliver a truly special episode for this milestone and Mary 100% delivered!
Rachael Layton: The Gray Area Drinking Trap
May 3, 2022 • 54 MIN
When Rachael had to navigate a huge life event, alcohol quickly became the support she thought she needed - until she realised it was taking far more than it was giving. Join us as Rachael shares her story through gray area drinking, navigating a divorce, and many of the ways alcohol is conning us into believing it's a good friend.
Susan Joy: A Sudden Rock bottom, Prison and Returning to Joy
April 26, 2022 • 62 MIN
Prepare yourself for an emotional episode full of twists and turns as Susan Joy shares her incredible story for the first time. This week we talk about rock bottoms, surviving prison, and using dark times as a beacon of light for others on their alcohol-free journey. Susan's story is as harrowing as it is fascinating and it highlights the deep power in taking radical responsibility for our lives and the power of hope to guide us back home.
Susan is a certified 'This Naked Mind' and Health Coach with a Master's Degree in Counseling. She has a special interest in working with sober-curious women who are experiencing midlife psychological, biological, and social transitions.
Karolina Rzadkowolska: Euphoric; Gain a Happier More Confident You
April 19, 2022 • 53 MIN
It's time to balance the books! Our guest this week - Karolina Rzadkowolska, is all about finding that happier, more confident you (without the booze). Let's be honest, the story out there about living alcohol-free is seriously one-sided. How many of us have been told that living AF is 'unfortunate' or just something we'll 'have to deal with'? The thing is, nothing could be further from the truth! Come and discover the amazing personal and professional edge that choosing to be alcohol-free provides us.
Karolina is a certified alcohol-free life coach, host of 'Euphoric the Podcast', and the bestselling author of 'Euphoric; Ditch Alcohol & Gain a Happier More Confident You'. She specializes in helping highly intuitive women make alcohol insignificant and harness their true potential - be sure to check out her amazing work and website below!
Kim Raysmith: Constructing An Amazing Alcohol Free Life!
April 5, 2022 • 63 MIN
How do you reconstruct your life after the destruction that alcohol can bring? You get real, get raw and get building, and this week's guests Kim Raysmith is the queen of helping you build a sober life full of fun and adventure. Kim is the face behind the 'Sober Party People' Facebook group and her coaching business 'Reconstructing Drinking' is changing alcohol culture in the construction business brick by brick (see what we did there!). Come join us for wild tales, tears, and lots of colourful headdresses!
Is Moderation Worth It? (Part 2)
March 8, 2022 • 55 MIN
This week we continue our discussion on the topic of moderation, if it's worth it, and why it's such a slippery fish (difficult thing to define and or maintain - yes another 'samism'). It's an important discussion as there is a lot of 'wonky' information out there on this topic and it really can be hard to figure out what's best for us (and what's possible). So in part 2, we take a deeper dive into themes from part one - neurology, tools and tactics, and why it's such a frequent part of the alcohol-free journey. Don't miss it!
Is Moderation 'Worth It'? (Part 1)
March 1, 2022 • 63 MIN
MODERATION!!! You know (that thing that means a thousand different things to a thousand different people) - the thing that so many people believe is the 'ultimate goal'. Well this week, we tackle it! Over here at Present and Sober, we're all about being present and sober (surprising that) but we also acknowledge the important learning that can come from moderating (or moderation attempts). We are also all different and we want you, to do you, whatever form that takes. In part one we take a deep into the question - is it worth it? As well as exploring our own personal experiences with moderation. This is an important and nuanced topic. See you here!
Christy Osborne: How to be Unashamedly You!
February 22, 2022 • 63 MIN
This week's guest Christy Osborne is not only a great friend but a great coach to boot! On today's episode, we dive deep into authenticity and owning who you are - no matter how others react. For so many of us, this is a HUGE part of finding freedom from alcohol as we navigate the world of healthy boundaries and learning to trust ourselves again. Christy is full of energy and her contribution to the alcohol-free movement is beyond inspiring. Can't wait to see you there!
Emma Gilmour: An Adventure in Self Love
February 15, 2022 • 67 MIN
Not only is Emma a beautiful spirit but she is also a qualified counselor, psychotherapist & This Naked Mind coach, living in Melbourne, Australia. Emma worked for 20+ years in corporate marketing and despite looking like she had it all, she was 'running on empty' on the inside using caffeine and booze to keep herself afloat. As she reached her mid-forties, alcohol started to take more than it was giving and so began her long and very messy break-up with booze. Nothing stuck until her eldest asked her to 'stop bringing wine into their bedroom' then it finally landed for her.
Emma started the process of rebuilding herself as an adult, with nurturing care. She discovered her values, stopped drinking, and had to create a whole new identity. Kicking the booze to the curb gave Emma a previously unknown level of confidence and personal power to pursue her dreams and become a qualified counselor and coach. Still very much a work in progress, Emma is an Aussie-based peri-menopausal mum of neuro and gender-diverse teens. She loves stand-up paddleboarding, ocean swimming and has recently purchased some gorgeous hot pink roller-skates. The focus of her coaching work is women in midlife curious as to what could open up for them and their families if they took a break from or stopped drinking. Come join us for an adventure in self-love!
Scott Pinyard: An Adventure in Consciousness (part 1)
February 8, 2022 • 64 MIN
As head coach at 'This Naked Mind', Scott Pinyard has a lot that keeps him busy. Yet, he remains obsessed with the topic of today's podcast - how our personal story about the world brings life to our individual realities. Many of you will know Scott from his awesome work on the 'Live Alcohol Experiment' and many of TNMs programs but today we explore some topics that you may not have heard Scott talking about in-depth before! There is so much more to the alcohol-free journey than simply stopping drinking and this a great discussion no matter where you on the journey. Come and re-author your reality with us!
Dry Jan's over... what's next? (Plus 3 more reasons to be AF!)
February 1, 2022 • 40 MIN
It's a time of change (and decisions) for many of us coming off the back of an experimental January - perhaps you even completed the Live Alcohol Experiment! This can sometimes feel like an ending but truly it's a beginning - whatever you decide for your 2022. Come and join us for a discussion around this and 3 more reasons to love an alcohol-free life!
'Should I Split the Bill?'
January 25, 2022 • 45 MIN
It's so easy to get lost in our thoughts around things like splitting the bill (especially when our friends or guests may have racked up a large alcohol bill) and this can get in the way of us enjoying ourselves if it becomes a worry! Well, this episode is all about breaking this down so you have a lot more clarity about what to do the next time you head out!
Skye Nicholson: Addiction, Alcohol & Awakening
January 18, 2022 • 60 MIN
Skye Nicholson is a fellow TNM coach and author of 'Unexpected Alchemy' a collection of poems that move the reader through Skye's personal journey from alcohol abuse to freedom and awakening. She has written some beautiful words so be sure to check them out below! Join us for an amazing (and emotional) episode!
Amy Holly: Find Your Alcohol-Free Groove
January 11, 2022 • 53 MIN
Join Amy, Ellie & Sam this week for an exploration of all things binge drinking, dance, and reconnecting with yourself. Amy is a professional dance teacher based in the UK and her journey from binge drinker to free thinker is one that many of us will be able to relate to. Amy's connection to movement and dance is something that many of us would love to have & on an AF journey, learning to throw some shapes on the dance floor can become a real challenge for some of us. Relearning how to let go of our inhibitions & tap into body awareness is an important part of finding freedom and this is what this episode is all about! So if you'd love to discover, reconnect, or deepen that part of you that loves to move, then groove on over to today's episode (sorry, I couldn't help the pun)!
Annie Grace: Beyond Alcohol
December 28, 2021 • 46 MIN
Annie Grace is the founder and friendly face behind 'This Naked Mind'. Her books & podcast were key in setting Ellie and I free from the clutches of alcohol & this podcast is heavily influenced by her groundbreaking work. Many of you will have heard Annie talking expertly about the reality of alcohol use previously, so on this episode, we wanted to provide the opportunity for Annie to talk about some different topics (first and foremost because we're super interested to know her thoughts on them) stopping drinking is just the beginning of this amazing journey after all! From abundance mindset to human connection, we cover it all here - come join us!
Jolene Park: Why 'Mind Work' is Not Enough
December 21, 2021 • 71 MIN
Jolene Park is a functional nutritionist specialising in 'gray area drinking' a term she coined that many of our listeners may be familiar with as it speaks to the truth of the spectrum of alcohol use, dependency, and addiction. Jolene's work around the somatic or 'body' piece, is incredibly powerful in setting people free and helping them to understand what feeling good in their bodies actually feels like. If it wasn't for Jolene's amazing work, this podcast simply would not exist as it was on Jolene's coach training just over a year ago that Ellie and I met. Be sure to check out all of Jolene's awesome resources including her viral Ted Talk below. It's a special one, don't miss it!
William Porter: Alcohol, sleep & nicotine
December 14, 2021 • 83 MIN
William Porter has had a profound impact on the alcohol-free world and for many, his books 'Alcohol Explained 1&2', have been an integral part of their journey to freedom. He was a natural choice for our most influential teacher series as Ellie and I have been so deeply impacted by his work. William has a wonderful way with words and an equally lovely manner, but through this, he conveys deep and important messages that society needs to wake up and hear. We talk about many things in this podcast but we take a deep dive into alcohol and sleep and talk about William's book 'Nicotine Explained' which is a must for anyone who would love to leave nicotine behind. Do not miss this one!
Andrea Kwiatkowski: Most Influential teacher series
December 7, 2021 • 65 MIN
Andrea is a dear friend of Ellie's and an advanced Jivamukti Yoga teacher with a wealth of positive energy and wisdom on the power of the Yogic path to bring us home to who we really are. Having studied directly with Sharon Gannon and David Life (the founders of Jivamukti), Andrea is positively impacting many through her classes and online courses. She was a natural first choice for the first episode of our new 'most inspirational teachers' series and Ellie was talking about this episode for weeks before we got to record! Come and see how Yoga is a beautiful way to connect with the real you and see that at our core, none of us are broken. Andrea is deeply experienced in a number of spiritual disciplines such as Yin Yoga, Restorative Yoga and Buddhism and Her teachings are always infused with stories , laughter and lightness. Check out Andrea's resources below!
Maria Fox: Alcohol, the police, wellness & weight-loss
November 30, 2021 • 73 MIN
Maria Fox is a senior leader in the police in the UK who is on a mission to radically change the story around alcohol, stigma, and addiction support in the services. Maria is also very active as a mentor in the 'This Naked Mind' world and many of you may know her from the 'Live Alcohol Experiment' where she offers a wealth of positive encouragement to participants. Not only is Maria a brave voice calling for change, but she is also incredibly informed about the impact of alcohol on our metabolism & finding a healthy weight for us as individuals. Through her work with 'Lumen', she is helping people to reclaim their health and feel good about themselves. Jump in - it's a good one!
Simon Chapple - Why you need connection
November 23, 2021 • 46 MIN
Simon Chapple (of awesome 'besober' fame) is a successful sobriety coach, author and speaker who helps people master sobriety and completely change the direction of their lives. Simon is one of the original 'This Naked Mind' coaches and has accomplished a huge amount, while having a hugely positive impact, on the growing alcohol-free movement and community over the past few years. It's our pleasure to be talking all things connection with Simon today - be sure to tune in to discover a way to come and meet us all in person this coming January at Simon's super exciting event - Sobriety BREAKTHROUGH live! Details below...
Megan Brooks #3: I'm humble (but I love myself)
November 16, 2021 • 71 MIN
Megan's journey from self-awareness to self-love is not just inspirational, but a wonderful roadmap for anyone who feels like they need a little more self-care in their life. For many of us on the alcohol-free journey, the words ' self-love' make us feel 'funny' or downright uncomfortable - I mean, what do they even mean, right? Loving others is something we can work with, but ourselves? If this is you, you're not alone, which is why we know you'll resonate with the third part of Megan's incredible journey home to herself.
4 more awesome reasons to be alcohol-free!
November 9, 2021 • 47 MIN
Sam and Ellie's list of awesome reasons to be alcohol-free is growing and growing. This week we talk about 'high-quality nos', all the things Sam has lost (yes including his mind on a few occasions), and how wonderful it is to be able to trust yourself again. Come and tune in for some laughs (and a few serious points of note).
The Truth about Sugar! (Teri Patterson)
November 2, 2021 • 79 MIN
SUGAR!!! It's a thing, and it's EVERYWHERE. Whether we're alcohol free or not, navigating the world of food is just not possible without sugar playing some part. The things is... there's 'added' sugar, 'healthy sugar', 'hidden sugar' (the list goes on) so how on earth do we figure this stuff out? We get a guide, that's how! And today's guest is just that. This Naked Mind coach and functional nutritionist Teri Patterson is here to save the day with the low down on the sweet stuff and what we can do to take back control if we've found ourselves eating too many donuts over lockdown. Come tune in to get some clear, up to date and actionable ideas around sugar.
How to Make Habits Stick!
October 26, 2021 • 66 MIN
So you've decided to make a change in your life, and you're all in! You've bought the yoga mat, signed up to the gym or bought the journal - it's habit building time. The thing is... how on earth do you make it stick? How do you move through that bit 'at the beginning' where we're forming the habit? If you're asking these questions, you are 100% in the right place! Not only are these questions normal but they are a sign you're super close to making those healthy habit stick (for good). Come and get it done!
Foundational Habits You Need in Your Life!
October 19, 2021 • 51 MIN
So what are the foundational habits that really make the difference? You know, the ones you can 'stack' other habits on top of? The type of habits that form the foundations for a life that fills up your cup rather than draining it. There are many to choose from journaling & meditation to cold showers? In today's episode, Sam & Ellie dive deep into the habits that help them support their best life - come tune in for lots of awesome ideas on how to build healthy habits in your life!
Why you Need Better Habits...
October 12, 2021 • 51 MIN
Habits. You know what I'm talking about... those routine things you do that support you to achieve your personal and professional potential. The thing is, they can be a little elusive, a little hard to make, and way too easy to break! So... if setting (and keeping) healthy habits is on the agenda for you, this podcast will be right up your street. In the first of a three-part mini-series, Sam and Ellie will help you get to grips with the habits that will help you create a life so big, alcohol will be left by the wayside wondering what happened to you. See you there.
'How Stopping Drinking Helped me Heal from Cancer' (Kath Elliott)
October 5, 2021 • 58 MIN
This week Kath Elliott is with us to talk about Aussie binge drinking culture, breast cancer awareness, and her incredible journey to a bigger life!
Check out her bio below and be sure to tune in for a truly inspiring story.
Kath works as an Alcohol Mindset Coach based in Melbourne Australia and has been living alcohol-free since July 1, 2019...
5 More Reasons to go Alcohol Free
September 28, 2021 • 54 MIN
The list of reasons to explore an alcohol-free life is endless and exploring them is huge amounts of fun. Of all the tactics for the journey, keeping this list at hand is very often one of the most powerful. Why? Because it reminds us of all the incredible things we're gaining! Come and tune in to Sam and Ellie talking about all the awesome time you will save, how the small things in life are really the big things and how true freedom is the ultimate goal. See you there!
Why isn't it easier to stop drinking?
September 21, 2021 • 43 MIN
Are you truly taking responsibility for your alcohol-free journey? Do you often find yourself blaming circumstances or others for the challenges you face? This is a biggie, and it's not always easy to see where we might be giving our power away but we all unknowingly do this to some extent. If you have ever found yourself blaming others for things being difficult (and who hasn't at some point?), then this is the podcast for you. Come see how taking RADICAL responsibility can make the journey to alcohol free-dom not just easier, but more deeply rewarding.
Am I ready to stop drinking?
September 14, 2021 • 50 MIN
How do we know when we're ready to stop drinking? There is ALWAYS a reason to continue but there are so many powerful reasons you stop. If you feel like 'you're there' but it's just not sticking, or you're just curious about when the right time could be, then this is the episode for you. This is not all about knowledge, in fact it's about a whole lot more and waiting until you 'feel you know it all' before you stop might not be the best course of action. Come see.
Top 5 Reasons to go Alcohol-Free
September 7, 2021 • 52 MIN
So often when we stop drinking, we focus on all the things we're moving away from... lost Sundays, arguments, and those dreaded hangovers (you know how it goes). But what about all the amazing things we are gaining? We're motivated by both, us humans, and this mini-series is built around focusing on the positive we are gaining from this amazing journey! So come and join us for this week's episode of the Present and Sober podcast where we start the VERY long list of reasons to be alcohol-free!
How to deal with alcohol cravings!
August 31, 2021 • 36 MIN
We've all had them, and they certainly aren't 'fun', but cravings really can be a magical doorway into learning on anyone's alcohol-free journey! With the right frame, we can up-skill and move through alcohol cravings with more and more equanimity. The bonus? They don't last as long and they become fuel for our freedom! If all this sounds to good to be true, tune in for an episode full of tools and tactics to help you leave alcohol cravings behind for good!
Alcohol triggers - what you need to know
August 24, 2021 • 56 MIN
We're surrounded by alcohol. It's in the supermarket, down every street, and at (almost) every party - and this can be scary. It can make us feel like we're walking into a sea of triggers and potentially - cravings. But this alcohol-free journey is all about making life bigger, not smaller, right? And we can't constantly alter the world 'out there' to make ourselves comfortable. But we can upgrade our understanding and learn tools and tactics to help us move through and beyond triggers. Come and join us for episode 12 of the Present and Sober podcast where we talk about how to do just that.
'I drink to connect'
August 3, 2021 • 62 MIN
'But alcohol is needed for connection, right?', this is the message we've all received for years. Movies, adverts, and society at large all sending us the message that 'alcohol is the secret sauce when finding friends' or 'a party isn't a party without alcohol!'. But is this really true? If you look around an alcohol-fuelled party at 1 am, are we really seeing 'connection' or something completely different? Come and join us for this week's episode of the Present and Sober podcast as we dive into this belief and consider the reality behind this 'promise' of connection. Regardless of where you are on your alcohol-free journey, we know you'll gain some inspiration and insight from this one!
'I drink to relax'
July 27, 2021 • 63 MIN
Why did/do you drink? Do you still hold the belief that drinking is the ultimate shortcut to relaxation? We're certainly told this (and sold this), on adverts, billboards, and just about every Hollywood film known to humankind. Watch any high-pressured TV program and what will the winner say after they're handed the title? 'I NEED A DRINK!'. The message? Alcohol relaxes us, alcohol regulates our emotions. But is this the whole picture? Is it possible we've been lied to by big alcohol? When Ellie realised that drinking might not just be the silver bullet for relaxation that she had always believed it was, it propelled her on a journey to her best self and she's never looked back. Come and join us as we shine a light on the truth behind a belief that many of us have held as 'fact' for a long time.
'I'm doing the best I can!'
July 20, 2021 • 49 MIN
When you look back on your day, what are the parts you remember? Do you see the whole picture and remember the small wins you had that made you smile, or do you focus in on the one negative passing comment that your boss made? As humans having a bias towards the negative has kept us safe as we have evolved into the modern world, but ensuring we're seeing the bigger picture and practicing compassion for ourselves and others is far from a fluffy practice, it has the power to change our worlds. Wherever you are in your journey (be it alcohol-free or otherwise) this is a powerful piece of the puzzle. Come and see how you really are doing the best you can in this week's episode (even if you feel like you're not)!
'Covid Gave me an Alcohol Free life!'
July 13, 2021 • 52 MIN
Covid has changed the world in many ways over the past 18 months on both the macro and the micro. This week, we have a truly inspiring story (from our first guest!!!) that shows how the worst things in life can become incredible gifts if we trust in the journey and keep looking forward! When Siobhan from @what.the.doctor.orders realised that alcohol could no longer be a part of her story, she was hit the realisation of just how ever-present it had been in her life up to that point - and it wasn't easy to accept. But over the course of the next year, she turned the 'worst thing' that had ever happened to her into the 'worst best thing' and built a life she would never have dreamed possible. Get ready for a story full of pain, resilience, joy, and a lot of fancy mock-tails! Let's go...
'I'll be happy when...'
June 29, 2021 • 45 MIN
Do you ever find yourself in 'I'll be happy when' syndrome? Is there something in your future that you just know will finally solve all your problems - the house, the partner, the long holiday? If you never fall into this way of thinking and truly spend your whole life in the present moment, you're a superhuman (or the buddha) and we want to know your secrets! In this week's episode, Sam and Ellie explore this very common way of seeing the world and talk about how coming into the present can bring you more happiness than anything outside you ever will. Holidays are nice, but how do we make life a holiday? We loved recording it and we hope you love listening to it! See you here - Sam and Ellie.
Let's make life bigger, together.
May 23, 2021 • 47 MIN
01/06/2020
Present and Sober
Episode 1
'Let's Make life Bigger, Together!'
So here we are with episode one of The Present and Sober Podcast! Come and join us to find out more about who your hosts (Sam and Ellie) are and why they are so passionate about the alcohol-free lifestyle. Despite having very different life experiences Sam and Ellie both sensed there was much more to life and embarked on a journey that ultimately led them to meet on a coach training specializing in gray area drinking. If you're interested in discovering how mind and body practices can help you upgrade your life, and you're curious as to how drinking might be holding you back, then this is the podcast for you!
- Why Ellie gets angry at the radio (sometimes) - (1.55)
- The importance of the mind-body connection - (11.58)
- How one of Ellie's clients found freedom from drinking - (32.00)
Resources
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- 6 Vital things about Moderation - https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/six-vital-tips-on-moderationa
- The Alcohol Experiment - https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/the-alcohol-experiment-registration
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