167 She’s Polyamorous, He’s Not: How Does a Mono-Poly Relationship Work? | Courtney Boyer
August 12, 2026
What if there’s more than one way to build a committed, loving relationship? This episode explores the possibilities, challenges and conversations that arise when two people have different ideas about what commitment can look like.
Welcome to episode 167 of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast with Venus O’Hara. In this New Moon episode, we discuss ethical non-monogamy.
We speak with Courtney Boyer, who is a relationship coach, and she is in a Mono-Poly marriage; that is to say, she is polyamorous, but her husband is monogamous.
I also review the book ‘Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life’ by Emily Nagoski
The episode concludes with a meditation featuring affirmations for polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous relationships.
This episode is sponsored by Svakom, an award-winning pleasure product brand. You can use my code venus35 for a 35% discount on anything sitewide on their website svakom.com