155 From Virgin Island to Real-Life Intimacy Work: Sexual Surrogacy with Andre Lazarus
April 30, 2026
Welcome to episode 155 of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast with Venus O’Hara. In this Flower Moon episode, we discuss virginity and sexual confidence.
We speak with André Lazarus who is a somatic intimacy guide from the Channel 4 show Virgin Island. Virgin Island follows a group of adults who have little or no sexual experience as they travel to a remote island to explore intimacy, attraction, and connection. Guided by experts, including our guest today
I also review the Personal Pleasuere Coach app, my latest launch, which is a 12-week guided experience designed to help you reconnect with your body, release shame, and explore your pleasure in a more conscious and embodied way. Through daily micro-lessons, guided practices, and intimacy-focused exercises, it supports you in building confidence, deepening connection, and creating more fulfilling experiences with yourself and others.
And the episode ends with affirmations for first time intimacy and sexual exploration.