Silent Struggles: What Leaders Never Admit (But Should) with Jeff Geier
April 23, 2025
Unspoken Pain Points: What Every Leader Feels But Never Admits
Are you feeling the weight of leadership in silence? You're not alone. In this candid episode of No More Leadership BS,the No BS Gang dives into the taboo topic of leadership struggles that most executives keep buried.
The Desolation of Command
Leadership can be profoundly isolating. This desolation often stems from our own decisions without having the right peer group to understand the unique pressures of leadership. Rather than grinding through it solo, discover why connection is crucial.
The Authenticity Paradox
Leaders fear vulnerability will diminish trust, yet the opposite is true. "Humbleness is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less." When you're fixated on yourself, you become less trustworthy. True leadership elevation comes when you embrace authentic connection.
The Invisible Burnout
Many leaders have normalized overwork to the point where burnout becomes invisible. Geoff points out that disconnection plays a major role: "An empty cup can't fill up anything." Learn why creating genuine relationships outside your leadership role isn't just beneficial—it's essential.
The Bottom Line
These unspoken pain points require a safe, confidential space to address. The panel unanimously agrees: every leader needs a coach, mentor, or confidant to break the cycle of isolation. Your leadership style sets the example for future leaders—make it sustainable.
Tune in for:
Ways to recognize burnout before it's too late
->How vulnerability actually builds trust instead of eroding it
->The critical reason your benefits package is worthless if unused
->A practical first step to breaking the cycle of leadership isolation
Remember: "The reason it feels lonely is because you've decided for it to be lonely. Change that cycle. You'll become a better leader, you'll feel better about it, and relationships at work and at home will get better—and that is no BS."
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Today's Featured Coach -
- Jeffrey Geier - Motivational Speaker, Trainer, and Coach - Helping You Win in Work & Life Owner/Founder of Phoenix Coaching LLC Reach Jeffrey at [email protected] or 509-553-9248
The rest of the gang:
- Jeff Conroy - Organizational and Non-profit Expert, Motivational Speaker, Coach - Executive Leader | Difference Maker for nonprofits in strategic planning, operations, and fundraising and development. Owner/Founder of Conroy Leadership Consulting, LLC. Reach Jeff at [email protected] or 208-215-6285
- Geoff McLachlan - Motivational Speaker, Trainer and Coach, Bringing Fun Back Into the Workplace, Owner/Founder of Professionals At Play Reach Geoff directly at [email protected] or 509-869-4506
- Myra Hall - Individual and Team Coaching, Midlife Mentoring- Helping you get excited about life again as you overcome the things that keep you from living and loving a life that counts. - Owner/Founder Waypoint Coaching Group Reach Myra at [email protected] or 765-623-9711