The main sign of having a victim mentality is the lack of accountability. When we take responsibility for ourselves, regardless of others' actions that negatively affected our lives, we step over the pit of victimhood and avoid having our power stripped from our leadership. But recognizing it may not be that easy, especially if you can't see the signs. While this is an emotionally charged subject, Jeff Geier of Phoenix Coaching, LLC skillfully leads the conversation while highlighting different perspectives. Regardless, the No BS Gang agrees if you start by asking yourself "What CAN I do?" and then act, you will be taking that first step to take charge.